Photo and Text by Duane Michals, below it reads:
"This photograph is my proof. There was that afternoon by the lake, when things were still good between us. And she lay her head on my shoulder and my arm round her and we were so happy. We looked upon a horizon full of love and possibilities. It did happen. She did love me. Look… see for yourself!"
Its amazing how this photo by Duane Michals pulls the right strings on me to feel in-love and sad at the same time. As romantic this photo at first glance, his caption below it puts me in a melancholic state for a while. He says its his “proof” that at one point in time he and his lady were so in love with each other. That there was time they know that the love they shared was true… this photo was his proof. A reminder that it really did happened. Maybe because no matter how many the happy times were, bad times can easily catch up with it and disregard the other. This photo just tells a lot of story in my head… you think so?
I will be forever grateful to a friend that gave me an opportunity to be part of their team as wedding photographer. Even before I always say that “I love weddings” maybe its the dressing up part, the food, the party, the tears, the laughs and the loving warmth in it that i like (aside from the thought that I will also have my special day someday!! *wink). And just by looking at this photo, as a proof of love, gave me a different perspective in taking wedding photos. The excitement and the thrill in our bride’s smile never fails to bring out the inner glow in her. And by that simple smile or wink from her, you will know she is in love. That love makes her glow and become even more beautiful than she can ever imagine. And every moment captured becomes their proof as well. Every frame as a bride or groom or as a couple becomes their proof that it was their happiest day being in love and loved.
There are so many moments in a wedding day, and I could only wish to capture all of it. But I will never stop trying. Because now I know that someday it will be their PROOF that it was a perfect day, a happy day, a lovely day that they vowed to be together in front of family and friends. Hopefully, when bad days come their proof of love will remind them why they should keep on fighting to be together. It did happen!